Oct 6, 2014

A person who wants you VS A person who needs you

A person who wants you…

Only gives you attention when it’s convenient. If this person is in the mood to see and to interact with you, if this person wants or needs that interaction, then this person will give you attention.
Otherwise, if this person isn’t in the mood to talk to you, to help you, to spend time with you, to be there for you, he or she will simply be unavailable – until, of course, it’s convenient to be there.

A person who needs you…

Is there for you because being there for you is something this person needs to do. This person needs to keep you safe and happy. This person needs you to enjoy life so that he or she, in turn, can enjoy life.
Regardless of whether it’s convenient or not, this person will be there for you. This person will do anything to avoid losing you, even if it means sucking it up from time to time and doing the little things he or she isn’t especially excited to do.

A person who wants you…

Will keep the conversations to a minimum. This person puts up with you because you serve a purpose.
This person understands that this means he or she will have to talk to you in order for you to feel comfortable enough to allow him or her to use you, but if this person could have it his or her way, conversations would be avoided altogether. This person doesn’t care what you have to say because this person doesn’t really care about you.

A person who needs you…

Will do anything to keep you. This is the type of person who is always interested to hear what you have to say. This person wants to know about your day, to know what you did, what you ate, whom you interacted with.
This person wants to know every little bit about you because he or she is still trying to figure out why it is that he or she needs you so much.
This person knows he or she couldn’t bear living without you, but this person can’t exactly pinpoint the reason why.
This person is in love with you because this person is in love with you, and although that’s enough of an explanation, this person still wants to figure you out.

A person who wants you…

Never makes long-term plans with you and avoids talking about your future. This person doesn’t want to plan any trips for next month — hell, he or she may not even want to plan dinner for next week.
This person doesn’t want to promise that he or she will see you again because it may never happen.
Every time this person leaves you, there’s a good chance it will be for the last time. You never know… maybe this person will find something better, or simply newer, later this week.

A person who needs you…

Has no problems planning trips or discussing your relationship. This person may not be able to promise you forever, but at the moment, he or she sees no reason not to.
During conversation, this person will mention things that you need to do together, that you need to see and experience together.
This person will talk as if the two of you were the same person, living life side by side. When a person needs you — really needs you — that person sees his or her entire future with you in it.

A person who wants you…

Will never love you. If you pay close attention and remain as objective as possible, you can tell how much a person cares about you.
It can be difficult to distance ourselves in such a way when we believe ourselves to be falling in love, but it must be done if you wish to avoid wasting your time and getting your heart broken.
If this person looks at you and smiles and you can tell he or she isn’t just looking at you, but lookinginto you, then you may have a keeper on your hands.

A person who needs you…

Either loves you or will soon accept that he or she loves you. A person who only wants you will never love you. It can be difficult for people to admit to themselves that they love other people — forget about admitting it to them. It takes some people significantly more time than others.
However, just because people can’t admit it — to you or themselves — that they love you doesn’t mean they will never admit that they love you. You have to be patient with people.

Credit:
Elite Daily

Sep 14, 2014

To The Girl Who Replaced Me, Please Take Care Of Him

Credit : Elite Daily

I love this article, so thought to share it with myself, and you :)






Dear Replacement,
There are a few things I think you should know, as you are now the object of his affection.
Don’t let it surprise you, how quickly you fall for him, and don’t be apprehensive in letting yourself fall. He’ll be there to catch you. Don’t let my Facebook page intimidate you. There were a lot of pictures of us, and while I hate to admit it, the pictures are a thing of the past.
He’s taken down most of them by now. He may not talk about me to you; he didn’t talk to his friends about it when it ended, so I don’t know if they will know either. It was a beautiful, one-sided love story of the past, but you are his future now.
We don’t know each other, and I am sure you already don’t like me. I resented you slightly when I first found out, but we do have something very wonderful in common, and it connects us whether we like to admit it or not.
I won’t text him or like his posts on social media. I can’t tell you every secret because it took me time to figure that out myself. But just trust that there are reasons he doesn’t say what you want him to, and there are reasons he doesn’t do what you want.
He will spoil you from time to time, but he is wise with his expenses; he spends money only when he needs to. You are going notice how he gets excited like a child when it comes to certain things and learn to hear giggle in his laugh.
You’ll find out his favorite movie and he’ll make you sit through it; I know I couldn’t without falling asleep. You’ll notice how he loves watching movies and how he might do it more than going out.
You will see him out drunk and he’ll get mad sometimes. He has a temper, as I’m sure you have noticed, so don’t take it personally. When he storms off, let him go and trust he’ll always come back with a smile and his bright blue eyes that make you look away.
When he falls in love with you, let it not scare you when he cries because that’s the one thing that triggers those emotions in him. When he falls in love with you, you’ll notice you sleep better at night, and when it rains, his touch simply will vanish every fear.
When that happens, you’ll almost look forward to simple things, such as walks because he’ll reach for your hand and you’ll blush because no glove has ever fit it so well.
He’ll do whatever you ask of him and you’ll rarely fight. He doesn’t like advertising things like relationships and feelings, so don’t expect that of him, just know he does love you. He may not think of you at every moment, but you’ll cross his mind often enough.
He has bigger dreams than he is confident enough to believe in, so it’s your job to tell him every day how handsome he is and how smart he is and that he is capable of it all. He won’t believe you, but don’t stop saying it.
He’ll make you see the world in a new light, and you’ll start questioning things you never knew. He can’t cook, so don’t expect him to. You’ll find yourself laughing at his little catchphrases, and if you do something he doesn’t like, one eyebrow will raise and he’ll look at you without blinking.
When you two are out, he’ll watch you the whole time and it’ll seem like you are the only one in the room. When you dance, it’ll seem perfect. Let none of this scare you and love him the way he deserves. He’ll tell you about the past and his mistakes, so it’s your job to take his hand and let him know you’re not judging him.
He is a better person because of all of that, and he’s found you because of failed relationships in the past. I hope you love him the way he deserves and I hope he loves you as deeply as I thought he did me. I hope he’s honest with you in a way he never was with me, but most of all, I hope he gives you the fairytale I thought would once be my life.
Also: Remember that I don’t dislike you, but if I’m being honest, I am jealous of you. I have found acceptance, but I’m also happy someone else gets a chance to experience what I did.
I hope one day I can properly meet you. Like I said before, we have a connection that no one else can say they have and I’m sure you are a wonderful person. He looks at who a girl is first before falling in love with her appearance. It’s a rare quality in a man.
I only ask one thing of you: Don’t hurt him the way he hurt me. I believe in karma and I believe people get what they send out to the world, but I never wish that pain upon anyone, especially him. You are dating the man of our dreams and I truly mean it when I say I hope it all works out for you.
Sincerely, The Other Girl

Aug 15, 2014

Lofa Lens

Assalammualaikum :)




Pada awal tahun 2014, (kalau tak silap), Neelofa telah produce Lofa Lens, 7 contact lenses berwarna yang terdapat daripada power 0 sehingga 800. Ada banyak warna antaranya brown, blue, grey & pink.

Harga adalah RM 69 sepasang untuk duration 1 bulan. Okay ni adalah 7 warna tersebut.



Oh yaaa, boleh dapatkan Lofa Lens melalui laman web Lofa Lens di sini ataupun melalui pengedar-pengedar yang berdaftar. Senarai pengedar berdaftar tu korang boleh tengok dekat Instagram Lofa Lens dekat sini. Pengedar Lofa Lens sangatlah ramai dan ada hampir di seluruh negara & Singapore.

Korang boleh tengok, ada sesetengah pengedar yang menyediakan khidmat COD (Cash on Delivery) sekiranya ada yg duduk berdekatan. Tak payah pos-pos :)




And last month, during Ramadhan, I akhirnya berkesempatan try lofalens! Ohhh happy sungguh, sebab kebetulan last minute sgt sgt dapat, 2-3 hari before raya tak silap. Rezeki namanya. Tapi sebab power mata I ni pelik skit, 175, stock nak raya adalah limited kepada 1 warna sahaja. Nasib baik memang nak try warna tu, smokey brown. Dah lama duk usha tengok, akhirnya dapat try pakai!

I beli ni daripada pengedar Lofalens Kedah. Korang boleh klik sini untuk pergi ke Instagram dia. Nama tuan empunya adalah Iylia, kecik comel molek je orangnya. Layan customer pun baik, so sangat puas hati. Bila korang beli Lofa Lens ni, korang akan dapat paperbag yg sgt cute, comel je warna pink. Tak silap I, Lofa Lens Kedah ni sendiri sediakan casing lens untuk customer, bukan semua pengedar ada sediakan tau.


 Ini adalah semua items yang I dapat daripada Lofa Lens Kedah.
Sampul duit raya khas untuk semua pembelian semasa Ramadhan (limited stocks)


 Contact lense diletakkan dalam sebuah kotak yang comel ala-ala makeup Benefit!
Dan paling I suka adalah bekas lense yang senang buka. Bukan dalam botol.


 Bekas pink! Kotak pink! Sampul duit raya pink! Comelnyaaa.


Okay, lense ni sangat best pakai ye. But itu I just compare dengan contact lense berwarna yang I pernah pakai iaitu dari Freshkon & Fresh Look. Menurut laman web Lofa Lens ni, contact lense ni diameter 14.5mm. Memang besar sikit dari size anak mata biasa. 

Waktu raya hari tu, beraya dari siang ke malam, ada hari yang pakai lense lebih 12 jam tapi so far okay je mata, selesa sangat. Tapi kalau jenis mata kering, tak digalakkan pakai lebih 8 jam ye. Selalunya I pun tak boleh pakai lens lelama, tapi THIS, is something I really love, cuz it's comfortable. Terus lepas raya tambah lagi 2 kotak warna celebrity brown & sterling grey guna duit raya! :D 


 
Yours truly in Smokey Brown


A bit pricey for me but benda berbaloi, sekali sekala apa salahya. Overall, berpuas hati dengan warna smokey brown ni & tahap keselesaan lens, dan servis pengedar. Siapa yang belum cuba, bolehlah cuba! :)

Astalavista!

Aug 8, 2014

HOW DO I: Store my Bangles and Bracelets

Assalammualaikum :)

Hello people. Like most girls, I love accessories such as necklace, bracelets and bangles. But about a year ago, I gave all my necklaces to my friends and some high school students. Those girls were excited, reminded me of myself when I was in high school. But now, still I have my bracelets and bangles with me. Been wondering how to store them without being exposed to dust cuz I have a very limited space of closet and cabinet in my room. Then I found this magic box, and of course because it is pink!

It is cheap and very practical! Check it out!


 TA - DAAAAA!


 Well, say hello to these babies of mine! 
It is a box with compartments. Could be used as small storage and organizer.


 Each compartment could fix about 2-3 different kinds of bangles and bracelets.


 Always been my favorite color, emerald green & pink. 


ANDDDD the best part is, I got this from IKEA at only RM9.90! :)
You can click here to check the product information.




Till then ;)


Jul 28, 2014

Selamat Hari Raya, Maaf Zahir Batin.

Selamat Hari Raya, Maaf Zahir Batin.

Buat awak yg sy kenal setahun, 5 tahun, 10 tahun, 20 tahun, 25 tahun dulu. Buat awak yg dah bergelar mak pak org, suami, isteri, tunang, kekasih org. Buat awak yg sy pernah lukakan, menangiskan, makikan, kecik hatikan. Buat mana yg sy pernah terumpat, tertak-puas-hatikan, tergaduhkan. Buat masa sy tak ada utk awk, ketidak-sempurnaan sy.

Buat semua sebenarnya, semua yang menyakitkan dan pahit, maafkan sy, halalkan makan minum sy. Terima kasih utk semuanya, mana yg sy mungkin dah lupa atau tak nampak. But deep down inside, I thank you every single little things in my life. Thank you, and I am sorry again for every single wrong doings I've made. Have a blissful eid!